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Lets Talk Career : Mind and goals setting

"Being your own boss isn't just being your own boss"

Scrolling on these social media platforms especially Instagram can give you one hell of a self-reflectment. You see people you do not know and label them as "goals", but what we do not perceive is the word "goals" is very loaded and not as light weight as it seems to us. It is a very easy story

when we talking about  dreaming  of goals and another whole story when we actually have to sit down and work towards these goals. Many  millennials see it so worthy and self satisfactory when they label themselves as C.E.Os and B.O.S.S.E.S in their biographies, when in actual sense have no idea what the meaning of such terms is. I give it up to the very few who actually are the true definition of instagram C.E.OS and B.OS.S.E.S. It is always a good thing to dream big of becoming your own BOSS and CEO, having your own job and making money work for you and not vice ~versa, I mean who wants to be low maintenance anyways and always work under people?

NO, DO NOT DO IT.... do not drop out of school or your 9-5 jobs with the intention of being your own boss, after all most of these I.G bosses and C.E.Os barely have 9-5 jobs or even worst go to college so why bother you say? Let me tell you the truth darling: most of these IG self-acclaimed bosses and C.E.O.s are not what they curate  and show you on their instagram pages, I always say these people use I.G and other platforms as their hiding place out of their truth!!! Do not get me wrong, I am all for dreaming big here and becoming your own boss, swinging for the fences and getting to your dreams as I would love to be my own boss one day, but its alway one step at a time! Life is never a rush

Below is three tips to keeping your head high and setting your goals whilst working to be a TRUE boss and not just acclaim the title to be cool.

DETERMINE WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

Ask yourself this: Do I just want to do something that others will deem as cool or do I really want to achieve my goals. The goal is to become your own boss and own C.E.O , great now ask yourself what does it take to achieve this. its not going to be a one day success but a series of trials and failures, a series of working under people to secure  the finances of curating your own dreams, a series of learning from others at your current job or school, a series of having to take instructions from others until you are finally READY to set your own pace. Whilst you are at this stage of your life, getting up everyday to catch the bus and train for work (as in my case) you may feel unaccomplished and unworthy,lets not talk about how tiring it is, but hunny this is the stage of your life that really shapes and prepares you into becoming your own boss.  Keep your head high, know what you really want and believe it takes little drops of water to make mighty ocean.

SET REWARDS FOR YOUR MILESTONES

Dreaming of goals will never take you to accomplishing those goals, whilst at your current 9-5 job (possibly), at school or whatever you are doing, tear through procrastination and set a realistic timer for being your own boss, motivate and pat yourself whilst you are working towards becoming your own boss, remember not to rush it and it is do-able. Light a much needed fire under your behind and place it where you can easily see it daily, affirm it daily and everyday do something little that takes you closer to being your own boss. Enjoy your current state with the mind set of going for a better state. Do not compare your race to nobodys race ( most importantly people you do not know personally but on social media)~ Worst mistake you could ever make!! Its totally O.K to unfollow such people if you cannot handle it, PROTECT YOUR SANITY whilst running your race at your own pace~ Good reward

ENJOY YOUR SUCCESS

I am a big proponent of rewarding yourself for the littlest thing you achieve. Write down the little steps you took in a day that will bring you closer to your dream, work towards them, achieve them and REWARD yourself. Rewarding yourself can be in any form, taking yourself out on a date , buying that thing you always wanted, refraining from the negatives around you, I mean something you deem personally as rewarding, because when it is all said and done there are those days when you feel like you need that SELF ACCOMPLISHMENT ASAP, do not forget to pat yourself on the back and it us totally okay to brag on yourself a bit! Be grateful for your current state whilst riding towards your accomplishment, Change that attitude of believing what you see on social media platforms(most of it is not real). Build your legacy, one accomplished goal at a time and have fun with it!

Be Your Own True Boss and not just for Clout!!!

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